pj,how can you say DF is something you get use too? and the more your DF the more Jah loves you??? Id never count myself fortunate to be DF...its devistating and never ever would i allow myself to be DF, i will always ALWAYS remain loyal to Jehovah. Many on here who were or are DF found it heart breaking,even if because it meant they lost touch with family members,they wouldnt have seen it as lightly as you have.
I'm sure you didnt mean it that way but im shocked to how you maybe seeing it??